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A mummy-hand holding, (former) biker gang affiliating, hippie influenced semi crunchy granola mom's ramblings and reminisings on an off-kilter life

Thursday, June 13, 2013

Viva Las Pregas

Vegas. 34 weeks pregnant. It's an experience.

 Ok to preface things, I'm not a Vegas fan to start with. I "get" why people love Vegas but it just isn't for me. I don't gamble, barely drink, have no interest in "shows", hate the heat, crowds, indoors, annoying drunk people, overly pretty people, fake things (fake boobs, fake Paris, fake everything), loud noises, bright lights.... yeah...pretty muchly all of Vegas.

 Give me a chalet in a meadow with a botanical garden and unoccupied beach with fresh coconut and an art museum or some weird conglomeration of things I like and I'm there.

Being pregnant in Vegas is even  more Vegas-vengeful. I have passed by thousands of people and seen no other pregnant woman- somehow there must be a Welcome To Vegas Preggos Not Welcome sign or law or something I missed on my way here. Probably cause it was blinky and loud so I ignored it.

Every person seems to gawk at my big old pregnant belly and I attract more attention than the nudey cards, mimes, or jingling slot machines. I'm surprised I've not been photographed as the endangered wonder of Vegas, the pregnant chick.

Why the heck did I come, you ask? Every few years I have to go to Vegas to remind myself I hate it and would rather have stayed home. My wanderlust gets the best of me and Vegas is a quick cheap travel destination so I'm like, sure let's go!  Plus this time around, my baby has dropped and I'm rendered pretty useless, so I figured being half handicapped in a hotel room with a toddler meant, unlike home, I didn't have to cook or clean, and there was less room for my toddler to destroy, less room for me to chase after him.

So here I am on my last day (thank God) and I have to piss and moan. Why does Vegas suck especially when pregnant? Let's make a list shall we?

1. You feel like an alien because no one else is pregnant. I already talked about this so let's move on.

2. With a hormonal cocktail swirling inside, the little things piss you off. This kinda applies to my entire list here.

3. If you are "lucky" like me, with food allergies, you look around and everything is freaking sandwiches (I can't have wheat) and monosodium glutamate. I really don't feel like pooping blood or having a migraine so sad I vomit from the pain. So it leaves me to eat a $9, 300 calorie pathetic salad, or $3 snickers bar (seriously where's the cheap Vegas?) for 3 days straight. I AM HUNGRY DAMMIT. I am trying to FEED TWO here folks and candy and salad don't cut it. And no way in hell am I paying $36 for a grilled 4oz filet of salmon over rice.

4. Walking. I love walking, really I do. I'd walk a few miles a day if I could. That is, until someone inside you decides your lady bits are a great trampoline and head butting target. When suddenly it feels like you are carrying a spikey bowling ball, it makes walking long distances a bitch.

5. Breathing and smelling. Breathing abilities diminish in pregnancy and smelling abilities increase. So a smokey casino is 5x as smokey smelling and 5x as gasp I need air suffocating. Add in old lady perfume, greasy food, the farty sulfer-sewage smells, sticky rotting alcohol spills, and so much "inside" that fresh air is miles away....it is no fun.

6. People who need to be punched. The person who was so drunk at 10am I could smell him 100 feet away who lurched towards me and spit on me (tuberculosis tequila anyone?) something that sounded like greee uuush baby haha wooo ogh loos" before I ducked and covered to protect myself and my brood. The super tanned slim sexy model-rific model types that prance around in next to nothing, in swarms, as if to say "haha pasty white pregnant chick we are young and sexy, you reproducer , you". The "woo" girls who "woo" at everything like cheerleaders, except that high school was so ten years ago. The swarms of Asian tourists that travel in flocks, cameras clicking, and literally push my son and I into a corner. The people, as aforementioned, that gawk at the pregnant lady. The creepy hobos trying to solicit money- I have sympathhy, I really do, but how do I know you wont jump me and murder me, the innocent pregnant lady with the kid? The people that try to sell me call girls, gambling cards, helicopter tours, and 5 more days in this Sodom and Gomorrah of America.

7. Adult beverages. I don't drink much but I will be the first to admit a tall glass of chianti would have been the piece de la resistance to my beef, rosemary, balsamic risotto last night. And seeing everyone everywhere drinking alcohol, every other establishment being some trendy bar beckoning customers, reminds me I'm pregnant and can't have that. It's like when your mom takes you to the "don't touch" glass and antiques store, or when she says you can't go get an ice cream from the ice cream truck, on a blistering hot day. I want some sickeningly sweet and intoxicating, barf inducing concoction I will probably take one sip of and wonder why I p;aid $15 for. Just because I can't do that.

8. Fakeness. The architecture and engineering on such a grand scale in Vegas does actually amaze me. But at the same time I don't like the manufactured carbon copy world. Venice and Caesar's palace pretend to be outdoors but aren't. The canal is just chlorinated water. The people dressed as clowns or Parisians or whatever are just that- in costume. The replicas of this and that are just that, replicas. They lack soul, history, meaning.

9. The emptiness. Maybe i'm an empath or soul wolf child or whatever they call people with supernatural powers but I can "feel" a place and all I feel in Vegas is a  sick and sad emptiness that drains me. And being pregnant, I'm already drained of energy dammit!

10. I don't have a #10 but a list looks "off" if it s just 1-9 since we use a base ten number system. I guess I could mention, for the sake of having an actual #10, that it is impossible to find any clothing for a pregnant woman in Vegas.

So there you have it . Viva Las Pregas sucks. I'm happy to go home soon. Even if that means finding a way to motivate myself to clean up the dust bunnies off the floor that I have to do acrobatics and yelping to get to.


  1. "Tuberculosis Tequila" - sounds like a hip new edgy cocktail that all the teenagers are raving about these days!

    I guess Vegas sucks for anyone who isn't into gambling and suffocating in smoke fumes. More so when you're pregnant.

  2. Oof. I can definitely see how Vegas would suck extra while pregnant. I don't like Vegas either. Any place that attracts people who are so hell bent on having a good time they get crazy eyes depresses the hell out of me.

  3. The only think I like about Vegas, besides Cirque du Soleil, are the restaurants. They have really great restaurants (but pricey). Glad you'll be home soon!

  4. I have never been to Vegas and will probably never go. For all the reasons you listed above, and I'm not even preggers :)